You got the ring! Now What? Tips for planning a Destination Wedding


Planning a wedding in a city different than the one of your residence may seem like a daunting task! There are so many things to do, see, know and decide and sometimes you just do not have time to call and send e-mails to all the venues and vendors and time starts to pass quickly! At this point you should ask for help from your mother, mother-in-law, friends, sisters or from a professional wedding planner at the destination who can help you gather all the information necessary to make decisions as well as get special deals in hotel rooms and vendors.

But where to start? Among the first things to define are:



There are a thousand ways to plan a wedding and many ideas that you probably would love to make come true like arriving to the ceremony in a beautiful “vintage” car, fireworks during the first dance, hire the hottest band, have a tequila or mezcal bar, flowers over the top … but let’s face it, if you carry out all your ideas you will brake the bank after the wedding and this would be an awful way to start your married life!! Make a list with all your ideas, determine your priorities and the “must have” details of the wedding.

Wedding Date


Even if you do not have the exact date, you must know at least the month and tentative days, if not, it would be very difficult for the venues and vendors to give you exact information, accurate quotes and availability.

Guest list

At least get an approximate number, this will give you a better idea of the size of the celebration. Keep in mind that for destination weddings, from all the people you invite, about 60% will actually attend  the wedding.

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Look for local Wedding Planners

Ask for references and their portfolio; Verify if they are Certified Wedding Planners or are part of a regional, national or international Wedding Planner Organization.


Weddingwire or are great websites to find reviews of many vendors in the industry

Now let the planning begin!!

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12 to 9 months before

  • Start looking for venues you like and if possible schedule a trip to the destination to visit the locations and solve any doubts you may have.

  • Choose the place where the ceremony will be held and the venue for reception, make the deposit to book it.
  • Search for invitations designs you would like to have and start gathering the addresses and e-mails of your family and friends.
  • Check packages  and prices for DJs or live bands  as well as photography and video service.
  • Send out the save the date.
  • Book the photographer, videographer, DJ or live band.

wedding-planner-tips6 to 9 months before

  • Make a wedding website where  you can write information about the destination, acommodations, the wedding itinerary and have the guests RSVP trough the website, be sure to write on the save the date the details of the webpage.
  • Choose the style of your bouquet, the bouquets for your bridesmaids (if they will be having one at all) as well as centerpieces.
  • Decide on the décor style and book the florist – weding desingn.
  • Choose the menu and cake or candy bar.
  • Buy your shoes, your jewelry and the lingerie you will be wearing the wedding night.
  • Choose the dress and color of your bridesmaids and groomsmen.
  • Registry for gifts.


4 to 6 months before

  • Make sure your documentation is in order. Passports or visas if the wedding is abroad, birth certificates, faith of baptism and confirmation if there will be a catholic ceremony etc.
  • Buy the wedding rings.
  • Order the invitations.
  • Book the flights and accommodations,
  • Buy any detail needed (décor, glasses, cake topper, favours etc.)
  • Choose the groom’s attire.
  • Check that the bridesmaids and groomsmen order their dresses and attires.
  • Send out the invitations.
  • Start a list of songs for the DJ with the do’s and the DON’Ts



3 to 2 months before

  • In case you are giving welcome bags for your guests (which we strongly suggest!) this is the time to either start making them or order them.
  • Choose your hair and make up for the big day and book the make up artist and hairstylist.
  • If you are having seat assignment start planning it.
  • Book the trasfers for the wedding venue and back to the hotel (if it’s an off-resort venue).






1 month before

  • Send to your Wedding Planner or to the Hotel anything you will need for the ceremony or reception  but you don’t wish to carry it in the luggage. Be sure to pack fragile items properly.
  • Prepare welcome letters for your guests and a list of activities to do in the area.
  • Have your final gown fitting, don’t forget to take with you the shoes and other accessories that you will wear on the big day.
  • Start working on your vows, if you’ve decided to say your own.
  • Send the final rooming list to the hotel.



Two weeks before

  • Confirm flights and hotel reservations.
  • Check all the final details  with the Wedding Planner and the vendors
  • Define the seat assignment and prepare the place cards with all your guests names.
  • Make the wedding programs
  • Confirm your transportation fron the airport to the hotel.




One week before

  • Start packing,  write a checklist so you won’t forget anything.
  • Book any tours or excursions in the area.
  • Have a manicure, pedicure, facial, massage,  wax and any other treatment you wish to pamper you, you deserve it!!




Once at destination

  • Meet with the Wedding Planner to review all details.
  • Prepare the welcome bags for guests.
  • If you didn’t have the chance to do a site inspection, have a menu tasting.
  • Have a rehearsal with all the members of the bridal party.
  • Relax and enjoy your wedding weekend.
  • Sleep well the night before the wedding.

Wedding Day


Finally the day is here!! Don’t forget to:

  • Eat well.
  • Drink water.
  • Make sure you have the rings and give them to the best man or maid of honor.
  • Most important… HAVE FUN! Don’t stress for tiny details, this is an amazing day and will go fast!

Ready to start planning your wedding?

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3 thoughts on “You got the ring! Now What? Tips for planning a Destination Wedding”

  1. Thanks for reminding me that we have to choose venues that we like at least 12-9 months before the wedding. My fiance and I are strongly considering having a destination wedding in Costa Rica but we’re worried about our guests’ expenses. I hope we’ll be able to secure an all-inclusive wedding deal so we can shoulder their transportation costs.

    1. Oh My Love Weddings

      We wish you good luck! The beauty of all inclusive resorts is that are a large variety in services, prices and with most of them their wedding packages are super affordable!

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